Dating young single mums
If you’ve read so far and thought that this site is disparaging to parents, think again.
We have a huge amount of respect for single mothers – they have a hard task and we believe they should not be treated as robots whose only remaining function in life is to raise their kids…
It's also a real question that single moms actually hear. Planning time for mascara is hard enough; popular culture becomes the Great White Buffalo.
Don't be surprised — or rude — when she hasn't heard the latest from Beyoncé or seen any movies.
At least that is what our male members report to us! This is a question many sceptical male members ask us before they use the site: are single mums really very open in the bedroom?
Our answer is always the same: it depends on the person.
Either way, you're likely to find someone that you fancy, as we have lots of members all across the United Kingdom, looking for dates.
Her children's games are the only ones she wants to play. Feel like she's perfect except you don't want kids? Instead of pretending you know what it's like, ask questions and be humble. Be ready for rapid-fire spontaneity or an ironclad calendar. She probably doesn't need saving, but she definitely needs a massage. If you want to whisk her away for a romantic weekend, offer to help with the parental logistics so she's relaxed on her trip, not distracted with worry.
Ask about what she loves about being a mom, ask about what her kids' interests are, admit that you've never seen . Liking her kids isn't the same as raising her kids. Until the mini people are old enough to get their own cereal and turn on the cartoons, there's no such thing as sleeping in. Be supportive if she complains about him, but whatever you do, don't talk badly about him in front of the kids (it's actually included in many custody agreements; don't make a sticky situation stickier). She can't just see how the night goes and stay out as long as she might want. Goldfish crackers and Band-aids are never far away. Hand sanitizer, Chapstick, a small dinosaur, some crayons, or a flashlight?
Some single mothers are after more than just no strings dating.
There is nothing wrong with this, and we are always delighted when members stay together and build a family together.
I went out with a girlfriend in Montclair, NJ, to a fun place called Just Jakes. It was a little deceiving, sure, but I thought telling the guys I was a single mom would influence their answers—and I wanted raw thoughts.
It was lovely being out sans Jack, having a cold beer at the bar, surrounded by other adults enjoying drinks, conversation, and music. I videotaped their answers, transcribed what they said, and here’s what I got: “My mom was a single mom most of my childhood, so I have tons of respect for single mothers.