Dating for a month what to expect
After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads. We met online and clicked immediately, and soon decided to be exclusive.Hello everyone, I thank you in advance for the thoughtful reply you would leave. I'm in my mid-20s and he's in his mid-30s, despite the big age gap, we get along great, respect each other's opinions, make sacrifices for each other, try hard to make each other happy, and just overall enjoy each other's company to the fullest. When we are physically together, I can honestly say that I am fulfilled and happy.As far as him telling you his thoughts about love, stop pushing him and trying to elicit an answer more favorable to you. He's being perfectly honest with you which, if you read most of these threads, is an admirable trait.
I suppose I'd like to know if it is indeed too early to evaluate a relationship on that level.
For instance, he hasn't said the L word yet (and I'm confused, because from time to time, I do get the vibe that he does love me from the way he looks at me and the way he takes cares of me). I asked him while we were on vacation around 3 month into our relationship if he loved me, he said he thought so.
Then I asked why he hasn't said the L word yet, he said he isn't ready and that saying the L word is a huge deal for him.
I may not even have thought of this as a problem if (hypothetically) we live together.
But when I'm alone, I think about us often and focus on the big picture, and rather unfortunately, I realized that some crucial elements from this relationship are missing.